Or so my husband tells me as I inadvertently dominated tonight's dinner-out-with-childless-friends conversation with tales of The Boy, The Girl, The Tot, and parenting topics (attachment, social work, anxiety, pathologizing young kids, and the DCFS anonymous hotline). We went out for a rare dinner out at Indian Garden with my college friends. What can I say? I spend 90% of my time with these munchkins. In many ways, they are my "work." Which was what I talked about a lot before we had kids.